Thought I'd copy this over?
It's been a few days since I used it last, but usually for me..
Power up Router (AirPort Express) - always wait for it to settle down (green LED steady)
Power up DL, which powers up the docked iPad. (usually powered off)
Load MF on docked iPad - wait for it to sync (or sink?) Always has.
Et Voila.
Then I connect the wireless iPad (always check to see if it sees the AirPort) and load MF. I have to tell it to connect to the DL by going into the Device Page and select the available device.