I whole heartedly agree with you. I played in loud bands for years and never even thought about my ears. I would come home after the gig and my ears would be ringing. Never once associated this with damaging my hearing. The ringing would eventually go away, so no worries. We are invincible as youths, aren’t we?
At about 48 or so (so long ago!) I developed tinnitus. It was annoying, but I got used to it. Now at 61 I can’t stand loud noises like going to weddings. I have to literally leave the room to get some relief. I’ve been diagnosed with a hearing loss in both ears, one is more than the other. I’ve been using noise cancelling headphones for a while now when I DJ school dances and even cutting the grass.
I even use noise cancelling ear plugs for parties and weddings where I’m not gigging. They are a little more discreet and work a treat. No more added ringing and headaches now. The damage is done and the tinnitus is permanent, but with the judicious use of hearing protection now, I can hopefully preserve my hearing for a few more years yet.
Our hearing as musicians is extremely important either playing or running sound and should never be taken for granted. I still impress upon my 28-year-old son to turn that iPod down. To no avail. Ah well!