My new one has done something similar, but I think it's my iPad or the crapple airport...
So we have maybe 5 iPads connected, and an iPhone, it works great, and then one (it's mine) disconnects. The bluetooth still streams music, the sound system is up.
Everyone else has control. I can close the app, reopen it - still no DL showing up.
I reboot the airport (NOT the mixer, not the iPad) and my iPad will then reconnect and then I can control the Mackie from mine again.
It's happened to FOH (iPad Pro) a couple times, but mainly happens to me. Probably because I'm doing more than anyone else with it and likely the first to notice.
At least this time it's not the DL32R, I don't think.